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Friday, 6 April 2012
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We live in an age of Peter Pan. It is not eternal childhood that we seek, however, but eternal adolescence; not perpetual innocence, but perpetual aggravation of the grown-ups. The problem is that there are fewer and fewer grown-ups left to aggravate.

The tenfold increase in the number of late-middle-aged people who smoke cannabis or take other drugs by comparison with the previous generation is but one manifestation of a widespread desire for eternal adolescence. Increasing numbers of people – especially men – on the verge of old age dress as in their youth, as if reluctant to acknowledge that their youth has passed.

The tendency is international. In the part of France in which I live for half the year, ageing soixante-huitards, their lizard skins wrinkled by having been too much in the sun, wear short denim jackets and try (but thanks to nature fail) to grow ponytails. They are not so much young, as immature at heart; they long for the days when it was forbidden to forbid. One doesn’t know whether to laugh or cry.

We are now entering the first era of the geriatric adolescent, or the adolescent geriatric. Everyone who has to deal with the old knows that in general they are a delight: gentle, dignified and undemanding. But when they are fractious, egotistical and difficult, they are as bad as any adolescent. I suspect that in future cohorts of the elderly there will be more of this type.

Recently, Paul McCartney told Rolling Stone that, aged 69, he had decided to give up cannabis. The reasons he gave for his conversion to abstinence were unintentionally revealing, not only of him, but of our increasingly immature and self-centred, that is to say adolescent, world-view.

The slowly ageing idol said that it was finally time to give up smoking cannabis because he now had a “sense of responsibility” towards his eight-year-old daughter. He added, “When you’re bringing up a youngster, your sense of responsibility does kick in, if you’re lucky, at some point.”

This statement was very revealing – far more revealing than it was probably intended to be – because it constituted an admission that smoking cannabis was an act of irresponsibility. There is, of course, a time and place for irresponsibility in a man’s life, namely adolescence, but 69 is a little late in the day to grow out of it.

Of course, Paul McCartney was protected from the consequences of his own irresponsibility by his talent and great wealth; he didn’t really need to be responsible. But most of us have no such luxury. Responsibility is required much earlier in our lives, because of both our circumstances and our choices. Airline pilots and train drivers cannot behave like superannuated rock stars. Unfortunately, more and more of us kick against the traces, as if we were still 18; we want to be superannuated rock stars.

The development of a sense of responsibility does not “kick in” if we are lucky. No one is self-indulgent by virtue of bad luck; he is self-indulgent by virtue of egotism and an indifference to others. The adoption of a culture of adolescence is therefore bound to result in a society of isolated self-absorption and indifference to the welfare of others.

Yesterday, I happened to be walking through the church of St Mary the Virgin in Nottingham. On the wall was a plaque to the memory of Frederick John Cox, “a youth of great promise”, who was “cut off in the morning of his life” and who “died on the 28th of November 1809 in the sixteenth year of his age”. To this some verses were appended:

“Farewell dear Youth! Too soon thy course is sped.

Fond Nature cries, and mourns, the untimely dead.

Yet why these tears? In everlasting day

Still blooms thy youth, and never shall decay.”

We have impiously – and ludicrously – brought down from heaven to earth the hope of an everlasting day of blooming and undecaying youth.

 First published in The Telegraph.

Posted on 04/06/2012 2:26 PM by Theodore Dalrymple
Comments
6 Apr 2012
Dorian G.

Teddy boy,

You're such a downer.



6 Apr 2012
Send an emailSue R

Seems unfair on Paul McCartney's older children.  Didn't he feel a sense of responsibility towards them?  Still, they've done alright for themselves.



7 Apr 2012
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Late flowering lust,
"Palestine" or bust
 
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Helen Thomas, Hell in bed, en route to Hades
 
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7 Apr 2012
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8 Apr 2012
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sorry about the defective Derbyshire link

http://poemsandprose.blog.co.uk/2007/08/14/late_flowering_lust~2804950/






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